tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-802298212852236479.post6315947814820108784..comments2023-06-10T04:23:46.870-05:00Comments on pick which light: Father's Day 2013I am Bethany.http://www.blogger.com/profile/01048586211067980415noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-802298212852236479.post-74223072184084139892013-06-17T01:54:17.225-05:002013-06-17T01:54:17.225-05:00So happy that Tim asked you to live life together...So happy that Tim asked you to live life together.Jeanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18054501945114070695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-802298212852236479.post-48261625455581692852013-06-16T23:04:44.182-05:002013-06-16T23:04:44.182-05:00This is my favorite. Also, I think the 4-6 month m...This is my favorite. Also, I think the 4-6 month mark of the first baby is the hardest on a marriage (I'm still neck-deep in field research when it comes to the second baby so I'll fill you in a year or so down the line!). For us it was at least. It was when Lila started to sleep more, eat less and had a schedule developing. It was like we both came up for air and looked at each other like, "oh hi there! You're still here!" And all the old small conflicts that we thought had disappeared had really just taken a back seat to more pressing problems like only sleeping three hours a night. All that to say, when Lila was 5 months old we started going to counseling and it was awesome. It was so good to intentionally reconnect with one another. I'm not saying you need it (although I think everyone could benefit from having a third party help you process stuff) but what I am saying is if it's hard right now, that's okay and it will get easier. This is when the good work happens. Oh. And Liesel is the cutest little chubster ever. The end. PS: happy Father's Day, Tim!Kelseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00948863454023773611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-802298212852236479.post-27122657201946906842013-06-16T20:17:06.822-05:002013-06-16T20:17:06.822-05:00So sweet. And I recognize that background. :)So sweet. And I recognize that background. :)Kirrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13087806734364787042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-802298212852236479.post-69327961724972213322013-06-16T18:11:45.222-05:002013-06-16T18:11:45.222-05:00Love it!Love it!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06370095814271780946noreply@blogger.com